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The Female Perspective: The Last Blog

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Hello Friends of the Blog!

As you can probably tell from the title, this  is going to be my last blog for the foreseeable future. I didn’t want to just disappear from the internet so I wanted to take a quick moment to do two things; first of all explain my leaving and second of all, say thank you.

Peace, love, acceptance.

So first off, why am I leaving The Female Perspective?

Well it’s just one thing too many in a busy schedule. I have gone back to school full-time, I work full-time and I am trying finish my fourth book, the sequel to my first book, The Last Daughter of Lilith. I’d like to have it out in May of this year and will hope to announce the official release date in the coming months. But as you can tell, that’s a lot of work and doesn’t leave me a lot of time for this blog. Or, at least, to write this blog with the quality I want it to have and that it deserves.

This leads me to my second point, the thank you.

I want to thank Chris for giving me the chance to write this blog these last couple years. He’s been awesome and always understanding and for that you have my hugest thanks. For all those who read and commented and shared, thank you as well. It’s been a blast and I love writing about crazy geek-dom every week. I hope to do it again one day.

In the meantime, make sure to check out the other blogs on the Great Stories site! There’s tons of cool stuff for sale as well!!! I’ll still be on the Trailer Snark blog as well each week.

Enjoy life friends, be kind to each other and read blogs to your hearts content! Thank you!

Thank-You

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The Female Perspective: The Word of the Superbowl = Inclusivity

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I’ll be honest, I haven’t watched the Superbowl in years. I went through a brief phase of loving football and I still like it, but I don’t sit down and watch a game anymore, too many blogs to write, cats to brush and chocolate to eat. This year though, I ended up watching it and while I didn’t care about the outcome one bit (I rooted for the Falcons, not ashamed. I love an underdog) I was surprised at the tenor of the commercials. Pleasantly surprised.

This is not a political blog in any way and I apologize if it sounds like it is kind of right now, you come here for entertainment and gosh dang it, I try to give you what you want, but I simply couldn’t walk by this one. What I noticed was that there were quite a few commercials that stressed inclusivity this year. And I loved it.

A couple of my faves were the Audi spot that stressed equal pay for women and just basically that women are awesome. How can I not love that? It was surprising and really well done. From the perspective of a father wondering what he should tell his daughter about who she should aspire to be. And the answer to that? Anything she dang well wants to be.

Check it out here: Audi Commercial – Superbowl 2017

Then there was this great one by Kia with the always wonderful Melissa McCarthy. It’s n to easy being a hero, but if anyone can do it with grace, er, well a smile on her face anyway, it’s McCarthy. Can this woman possibly do wrong? I think not!

Check it out here: Kia Commercial – Superbowl 2017

Finally, I list my two favorites of the night. They stressed inclusivity, they stressed that we are all from somewhere else and we deserve our chance to live our dreams. They said a giant, collective, F-You to anyone who thinks that America shouldn’t be the land of opportunity for everyone.

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There are plenty of people out there that say both these spots are “liberal propaganda” and that is totally their right to believe so. I (a crazy progressive liberal) believe that both of these spots demonstrate that, once again, America should be for all people. And yes, that means I believe we deserve to be safe, but you know what? There are ways to do it that don’t shut out genuine, hardworking people that just want a chance. Let’s all practice inclusivity in our lives. Let’s all accept each other. Let’s all find peace.

Peace, love, acceptance.
Peace, love, acceptance.

Thanks for reading.

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The Female Perspective: A Wee Little Break & New Years Celebration!

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Hello Friends!!!

This weeks blog is a day late and a bit different than the norm. I am going to be taking a bit of a break as I need to focus on other projects — Namely finishing as best I can my fourth novel, the sequel to “The Last Daughter of Lilith”!!! I have a title, FINALLY, which I will reveal when the publishing date gets a bit closer and I have AMAZING cover art done by the one, the only, Frankie B. Washington, which I will also reveal when the time is upon us.

For my last blog of 2016 (thank you Jeezus that 2016 is almost over) I wanted to end the year on a positive note. When so much is going wrong in the world it’s hard to focus on the good things and it can be even harder for those who are alone or feeling unloved to find the light in the dark. So I wanted to offer up a few New Years traditions that can maybe help start 2017 off on a positive note.

And as the legendary Leonard Cohen once said;

There Is a Crack in Everything, That’s How the Light Gets In.

Also, being perfectly imperfect is the best way to be, you’ll have way more fun that way.

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New Years Traditions 

A Jar Of Good Thoughts — It can be fun to get a nice jar, a nice, big jar, and place it somewhere that you cannot overlook or forget about it. Next to the jar put a small notepad or a basket of small pieces of paper. Next to that put a pen (or pens) and every time something good happens in the new year, no matter how small it seems, even if you got a new, cool pair of socks (thanks Celeste) or awesome Prince earrings (Jenny!), you write that on the paper, put it in the jar and by the end of the year you have a jar that represents every good thing that happened to you that you then read out loud with friends, or alone. Whatever suits your fancy.

A Cleansing Fire — Fire is the ultimate cleanser. It burns the just and unjust alike. It can destroy and it can be the impetus for rebuilding. It can be devastating or deadly, or it can be cleansing and forward-looking. In this case, we want the fire to represent the good that is to come and our break with anything bad in the past. Build up a nice, SAFE bonfire in your fire pit and/or fireplace or wood stove. Write down all the things (good or bad) that happened and say them to yourself (or out loud if you feel safe) and toss them into the fire.  Let those thoughts, occurrences burn up and be ashes, let them be free and in turn, you’ll be free of them as well. Free to enjoy the new year lighter and freer, with an open heart.

Have a New Years Puja! — A puja, put simply, is an act of worship. I learned about it in my yoga training and it is an amazing and lovely experience. Most importantly, you don’t have to be some yoga guru to perform one. You can hold a New Years Puja right in your own home!

Importance of New Year Puja

New Year is one of the most popular occasions for the people of India. It is celebrated on 1st January, i.e. the first day of year according to solar calendar. The New Year day is very prominent for the life of a person as it is the day for new beginning leaving all the mistakes, miseries, bad habits behind and making resolutions for performing good deeds, improving oneself in every fields and achieving great success. The New Year day also holds enormous astrological significances. It is the day on which the earth begins a new revolution around the Sun. Lots of people hold puja on this day with a desire of happy and prosperous year ahead. They make new resolutions and promises in front of the god and ask for strength and blessings to fulfill those resolutions successfully.

How to do New Year Puja

The New Year Puja basically consists of offering prayers either in a temple or at the one’s house. It may also consist of other rituals like Havans, Aarti and donations. Usually, the New Year puja is accompanied by a feast among the participants. The Puja is done while focusing on wishing for prosperity and success for the participants in this New Year.

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More than anything else, make New Years a day of letting go of the past and a stepping forward into a new year that is full of possibility and hope (no matter who is president). We can all get through this together. We are one, we are powerful and we are ready to face whatever comes our way with grace, sensitivity and most of all, love.

Happy 2017!!!
Happy 2017!!!

So tell me, how are you going to celebrate the end of 2016 and how are you going to step into 2017? Tell me in the comments below!

See you in 2017 Friends!!!

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The Female Perspective: Is Body Positive Really Positive?

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I see things all the time regarding the “body positive” movement and about fat shaming and skinny shaming and all that. As a woman, as a human, I have struggled with my own self-confidence and self-acceptance pretty much as long as I can remember. There have rarely been times when I feel super confident about how I look and what people think about me. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve gotten a better grasp on it, but it still haunts me.

Some of you may know that last year I had Gastric Bypass Surgery to help me lose a substantial amount of weight. Since March of 2015 I have lost about 140 pounds and am still trying to lose another 10-15 pounds to get to my goal weight, therefore I feel that I am in a place where I can talk about what it’s like to be overweight and to also be what is considered a “normal” weight and how frustrating it is to see people online mock those who exercise, mock those who don’t, make fun of overweight people, make fun of skinny people, blah, blah, blah. It goes on and on and on.

It’s no wonder that most of us have body image issues, there doesn’t appear to be any one image that appeals to everyone, so you know what I say to that? F*&k it. What society needs to learn, what so many of us need to learn, is that your body is beautiful. Your choices are yours to make, and unless you are self-harming, you are just perfect.

Why Being Body Positive Kind Of Stinks

I’m really tired of seeing meme’s, gifs, videos, etc of women basically shaming other women for how they choose to live their lives. You want to exercise and eat healthy? Great! Good for you! You want to not do either of those things? Great! Good for you! You know why? Because it is YOUR body and therefore, YOUR choice. Our choices define who we are in the world, our choices make us who we are. What other people think of you is pretty insignificant in the grand scheme of life and what matters most is that you love yourself. Of course, being 6 feet tall and 90 pounds is not so healthy, so is being 6 feet tall and 500 pounds. Our bodies are made to carry a certain amount of weight and that varies from frame to frame, but if you can move around and feel good and do the things you love to do, then I’m happy for you and I think you’re awesome.

Our differences make us great.
Our differences make us great.

What I don’t think is awesome is men and women who think that being overweight is “disgusting” or “shameful” or, and this is my biggest pet peeve, that if you are overweight you are lazy. Yes, that is sometimes true, there are people who are overweight and they are also lazy, but there are also overweight people who make an effort to eat well, exercise and they still can’t lose weight because they simply aren’t knowledgeable about how to do it correctly or, if you’re like me, you are a food addict. You cannot help yourself because you are ADDICTED to food. Yeah, food addiction isn’t as well known or perhaps as interesting as alcohol or drug addiction, but it can destroy lives. It can kill, and it does kill. It’s serious and needs to be taken seriously.

We need to stop looking at those that are obese and think that they are simply lazy. There’s a lot that goes into that weight gain: genetics, depression, stress, lack of self-esteem, etc. It’s more than just fat, it’s a security blanket that keeps us safe.

When I see women (or men) who are overweight and singing the praises of body positivity I am always torn. On one hand I think, yes! Be proud of who you are! Don’t let anyone tell you you aren’t amazing. On the other hand I think, you are overweight and your body does not like that, your joints don’t like that, your internal organs don’t like that. But I am not a doctor, nor am I here to judge your choices.

Honestly, I want people to be proud of who they are. I want people to look in the mirror and think, I love myself. I didn’t feel that way about myself for a VERY long time so I chose surgery. I chose to change my stomach size so that I could eat less, it was a tool in a very big toolkit that has saved my life. I also changed what I ate, how much I exercised and more important than anything else, I changed my relationship with both myself and with food. It’s not the crutch I lean on when I’m sad or stressed. It’s something I have to have in order to nourish this body as well as I am now able to enjoy, to savor the food. Not to just shovel into my face mindlessly.

A Feminist Bikini Body

I recently saw this video posted by Bustle.com and I am confused by it, again, on one hand I see their point, any BODY can be a bikini body, but just what are they saying here?

I watched this video and thought, hmmm, they’re kind of making fun of people who exercise in that they seem to be saying that if you exercise, you are trying to attain the status quo beach body and not the beach body you have. I have to strongly disagree with that. As a person who exercises every day (something I never thought I’d say) I don’t do it because the world thinks I need to look a certain way, I do it because it FEELS GOOD, it makes me feel strong and powerful and sexy and more than anything else, I feel darn proud of myself for being able to run/walk (aka wagging) 7-8 miles a day. It feels good when I lift weights and I can do that extra bicep curl or add more weight. It feels amazing that I can do yoga comfortably now. I didn’t lose weight to please the patriarchal societal ideal of what beauty is, I did it for me, for my health. To have that mocked so openly is frustrating and why I think the body positive movement is so flawed.

Also, why is this specifically “feminist”? Because it’s women? Because it’s supposedly empowering? Labeling something as feminist simply because it seems “radical” is a waste of time in my mind. I don’t go around saying, this is my feminist point of view (with the exception of this blog). I don’t say, “This is a feminist reading a book”, or, “This is the way a feminist takes a pee.” I simply do my thing, and if things get all feminist-y then so be it.

Why do we have to poop on one side of things in order to lift up the other? Why, as humans, do we have to put someone down to make someone else feel better? I say this as someone who is guilty of doing this. I say this as someone who was once 343 pounds and who mocked skinny people, who scoffed at those who could lift weights and jog, because I was sad I couldn’t. I was sad that I was overweight and felt trapped in my own body. Now, I’m not saying these women feel that way, I’m not even saying every overweight person feels that way, I’m saying that we can lift each other up without putting others down. Let’s try that for a change and see what kind of world that brings us to.

I’ll start:

You look beautiful today and I hope that you feel good in the skin you are in because it’s amazing and I am quite sure that the brain inside that head is amazing too.  You are more than what you look like and you are more than what you think. Those are just parts, you are a whole, complete person with dreams and power and kindness within you. I am proud of that. 

Now you go…

Just in case you've forgotten...
Just in case you’ve forgotten…
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The Female Perspective: Humanist Versus Feminist: Is One Better Than The Other?

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Teach Humanism.
Teach Humanism.

Recently, Sarah Jessica Parker went on record with Cosmo magazine as saying that she is no longer a feminist but a humanist.

“As [playwright] Wendy Wasserstein would say, I’m a humanist. I’m enormously appreciative of the work that my mother’s generation did. We are the beneficiaries of a lot of disappointment, heartache, discouragement, and misunderstanding. But I see a lot of people trying to sort out their roles. People of color, gays, lesbians, and transgenders who are carving out this space. I’m not spitting in the face or being lazy about what still needs to be done — but I don’t think it’s just women anymore. We would be so enormously powerful if it were a humanist movement.” ~Jezebel

I read and re-read that paragraph a couple of times, the entire time nodding my head in total agreement. Why? Because darn-it, she is totally right. We would be enormously powerful if we all banded together to forward the cause of humanity. Not just one small section of it. Don’t get me wrong, I am not turning my back on my ladies and their needs, I am instead opening my arms up to everyone who needs support and equality, minorities, homosexuals and the transgendered community. If we all simply chose to work together instead of separating ourselves from one another, imagine how much louder, how much more powerful our voices could be?

SJP hit it right on the nose.
SJP hit it right on the nose.

They could shake the world.

And then they’d shape the world.

YES!
YES!

What Is Humanism?

I’m SO glad you asked!

Humanism is a philosophical and ethical stance that emphasizes the value and agency of human beings, individually and collectively, and generally prefers critical thinking and evidence (rationalism, empiricism) over established doctrine or faith (fideism). ~Humanism as defined by Wikipedia

Isn’t that a beautiful idea?

Don’t get me wrong, I am proud to be a feminist and I am proud to fight for my ladies wherever I can but at the same time, I see the division, the cracks, in the feminist community and it seriously bums me out. How are we ever going to accomplish our goals if we divide off into various factions? How are we going to come together and fight for our beliefs if we think a woman who wants to be a mother and a wife is somehow less than a feminist who is single, childless and working a high-paying job? Am I less of a feminist because I ask my boyfriend for advice? For comfort? For support?

NO.

If you stand up for women. For their rights and their equality in the male-dominated work force and beyond, than you are a feminist. You are a feminist whether you have kids, don’t have kids, work a corporate job or go to school full-time. There shouldn’t be levels of feminism. There shouldn’t be division.

What’s that old saying? “Together we stand, divided we fall,” and let me tell you, that’s completely true. I would be nowhere without the love and support of my family, friends and boyfriend. I would not be doing what I love every single day and I would not be able to do that without the blood, sweat and tears of the women who marched before me.

The thing is, if we joined forces with all the other equality movements out there we could be louder and stronger than any of us have ever been before. It seems so simple when I write it but at the same time, as we all know, it is much harder than that. We as a species need to learn that accepting help is okay, respecting others ideas is great and working together is Earth shattering.

I am proud to be a feminist but I am even prouder to be a humanist.

Capt. Picard knows where it's AT!
Capt. Picard knows where it’s AT!

What do you think? Is one better than the other? Do you believe in division or togetherness?

Sound off in the comments!

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The Female Perspective: Gay Kissing, Dreadlocks and Racism. Oh My!

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Today I want to address a few different topics that I was made witness to these last few days. I am going to start by saying that this post may not be appropriate for all ages and I heartily apologize for the slur used in #2 listed below. That is the only time I will use it myself because it makes me feel ugly.

  1. The Walking Dead” had a gay kiss, the reactions are predictably (and sadly) off the wall insane.
  2. A FOX TV reporter used the term “jiggaboo” to describe Lady Gaga’s “Sound of Music” performance.
  3. Giuliana Rancic (with an assist from Kelly Osbourne) from E! News Fashion Police decided that singer Zendaya Coleman must smell of “weed or pachouli” because she has dreadlocks. 

Sigh. I am not even sure where to start with the feelings these three incidents bring up within me. I think the biggest feeling is disappointment. I know there is good in the world (this story proves it) but some days it can be very challenging to find the good amidst all the bad.

The Gay Kiss on The Walking Dead

The kiss is less than 1 minute long. Seriously?

If you are a regular reader of my blog, you are aware that I am a huge fan of “The Walking Dead”. I read the comics and enjoy the show. That being said, I was not surprised when two new male characters decided to share a kiss this past Sunday. It was so not a story to me that I admit to being surprised that people were outraged by this one-second kiss. Perhaps that makes me naive. I prefer to think that it makes me more tolerant than some of the trolls online.

From reading some of the tweets and comments after the show aired. You would think that the dang sky was falling down and that “The Walking Dead” had committed the biggest sin ever.

Excerpted from Bleeding Cool, here are some of the responses from some trolls over that one second kiss.

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@WalkingDead_AMC i have been watching the walking dead for years with my kids,then with no warning u throw gays in there, I’m disappointed

10:46 PM – 22 Feb 2015

63 RETWEETS 9 FAVORITES

I’m not sure what to be offended at most, the fact that this guys homophobic tweet got 63 retweets and 9 favorites or that this “man” watches “The Walking Dead” with his KIDS and is only now offended. Never mind that in past episodes we see Zombies eating people; cannibals and other such horrors, the true horror here is that two men kissed. Dear lord. Yes, it’s truly a show for kids. Until now. Can’t have the kids seeing what a loving relationship is like. No, no, that’s too horrific for their sensitive ears and eyes. Yeah, let’s think of the kids for sure because they should be watching a show about zombies and death. Yeah, that’s really stellar.

It continues on with this gem;

I don’t discriminate against gay people. Plenty of my co-workers are gay. I just rather not have young children exposed to the BS on TV

— BJ JONES (@BJizz1e) February 23, 2015

Oh, oh I gotcha…you’re NOT a homophobe yet seeing two people who LOVE EACH OTHER share a quick kiss, that’s offensive. Again with the kids. Seriously?!?!?!? What rocks do these folks live under?

And one of my personal favorites;

I’m not a homophobic but that gay couple just ruined The Walking Dead

— Bri Scott (@bri_scott34) February 23, 2015

I’ve got news for your BJ and Bri Scott, you ARE homophobes. Whenever you have to start a sentence with “I’m not homophobic…” or “I’m not racist, but…” it’s a sure sign that you are, in fact homophobic and/or racist. Don’t try to delude yourself into thinking that you are on the right side of this discussion. I am simply trying to understand why one moment of a show can ruin an entire series??? Someone, please explain that to me.

“Accidental” Racism

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Next, we have Kristi Capal, a local newscaster who thinks she can use a racist slang on TV and no one will get angry.

I should note that Capal did apologize later but the damage was done. She used a term that is defined as being offensive in the dictionary to describe Lady Gaga’s “Sound of Music” performance on the Oscars. Now, first off, Lady Gaga killed it at the Oscar’s. She showed a poise and elegance we rarely see from the performer. It was a reminder that not only is she a talented pianist, she is an talented singer as well. Even Julie Freakin Andrews loved it!

All this comment did was reveal Capal to be both racist and ignorant. She later said she didn’t know what the term meant. An explanation many find hard to believe since it is a rarely used word these days. It’s simply not a word you pull out of thin air. I suspect she said it without thinking but all the while knowing exactly what it meant. I am sure it was probably one of those moments where as soon as she said it (in front of her African-American co-anchor no less) she realized she had made a mistake, but it was too late Capal. We heard it.

According to E! News, Dreadlocks Smell of Weed

Finally, we come to the mess that is E! News and their Oscar Fashion Police. When I was younger, I found this show amusing but as I’ve grown, I see it now for the cruel farce it truly is. It’s a group of people putting down others for cheap laughs. It’s not a show I ever watch and I honestly cannot say that I’m surprised that one of the hosts finally got into some trouble for making a somewhat racist and very much cruel, comment.

Fashion Police host Rancic said that Coleman looks like she smells of "pachouli or weed".
Fashion Police host Rancic said that Coleman looks like she smells of “pachouli or weed”.

The story is that host Giuliana Rancic decided to throw a cheap shot at singer Zendaya Coleman, an 18 year old with dread locks. Rancic decided that this young woman (who looked stunning by the way) must either smell like “Pachouli or Weed”. What’s kind of amusing is she got an assist from Kelly Osbourne (of all people!) who added the weed part.

Um. What?

What’s interesting is that the outrage was instantaneous. People were stunned that Rancic would make such a comment without thinking. The show isn’t about what you smell like, it’s about what you are wearing. This was a low blow even by E!’s somewhat questionable standards.  What it made it more interesting wasn’t Rancic’s pathetic apology but Coleman’s classy response to this nonsesnse.

You can read the full text of Coleman’s response but my favorite part was this;

“To me, locs are a symbol of strength and beauty, almost like a lion’s mane,” the singer wrote. “I suggest some people should listen to India Arie’s ‘I Am Not My Hair’ and contemplate a little before opening your mouth so quickly to judge.”

I want to note that it was after Coleman issued her articulate and classy response to Rancic’s comments that Rancic apologized.

ADDITION as of 2/25: Rancic has since issued a very sincere and articulate apology – you can read/watch it here. While I again appreciate her efforts, for her to say she has “learned a lot”saddens me. Didn’t she already know this lesson?

My Thoughts On it All

Yeah, yeah, yeah, you might be reading this and think, well Rancic and Capal both apologized for the slights and that should be enough but it simply isn’t. Don’t get me wrong, I am glad that they either found the presence of mind to apologize (or they were made to)but it doesn’t matter because the words were put out there. The fact that these thoughts were expressed on live TV saddens me.

I know I suffer from acting before I think occasionally. Sometimes that causes issues, sometimes it’s not a big deal. But never once have I issued hatred for another human being in public. I work hard at practicing non-judgement (and on days like this, it’s REALLY hard and I know I’ve failed a bit) but I am human, I fail. They are human and they fail. But it has to stop. If you are in the public eye you need to think before you speak. You need to realize that getting a cheap laugh for making fun of someone is never OK. You mocked a beautiful young woman for wearing her hair naturally and you praise her when she straightens her hair and looks “normal” – to you, anyway. Shame on the homophobes and shame on people like Rancic and Capal.

I wish I was a big enough person not to judge them for their actions but I am not. This type of hatred cannot stand. We have to learn to love each other, to be respectful of one another in order to find peace.

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What do you think of these topics? What can we do to stop these types of “slips” from happening?

Let me know in the comments!